Doing The Dance ?

Why do young girls find a boyfriend, break up, then make up and then do it all over again with the same smuck?  Young girls just seem to do this, they are in love and there is no one other. Parents try and tell them about all the fish in the ocean thing, yet, they go back to smucky.

My daughter has done this dance it seems about thirty times with her smuck. Over and over. She needs him, he's her everything. Everyone tries to tell her,when he dumps you, stay dumped. Go out in the world and find another fish. I think she should do this, she is a senior in high school. Dump smuck 1 and find smuck 2. He won't be following you to college. Have some fun, enjoy the last year of school.

I'm afraid she thinks so little of herself, that she does this. Do other young women do this too? Is this why they do the dance? Or, is it just part of learning life, learning about who you are and what you really want in life for yourself?

She was dropped by smuck #1, let's hope she will stay droppeed and go on to smuck # 2.